I've changed. It has altered my senses, my thoughts, my heart.
Perhaps
it has made me a better listener. My ears perk up when I hear the beep
from his glucometer. I wonder what number will appear. When the
cabinet door is heard creaking open, I know a snack is being searched
for. When he is out playing in the neighborhood, I listen for the front
door; for his return. My ears always primed for the quick, brisk,
quietly stated "I feel low". It's not the actual words, it's how he
says them, the tone and the speed in which they are delivered, that's
how I know he will, indeed, be low.
My hearing, my listening, has improved.
Perhaps
it has made my sense of touch more keen. My fingers know the roughness
of his calloused, blistering finger. He has a favorite one to poke.
It becomes so calloused, it blisters, then it peels. Glucometers,
lancing devices, and test strips, I know them all by touch. They are
felt for in the darkness of our nights; they help insure his safety.
Yes, my somatic senses have been put to the test.
Perhaps
it has made me see things a bit more clearly. The unsteadiness of his
hands, the pallor of his skin, or the quiver of his lip, telling me he
should check. While out and about, my eyes search for
"same", looking for pump tubing poking out of pant pockets, or POD
bumps, or glucometers. Finding "same" makes me feel more normal; more typical. It's comforting.
My eyes. They don't miss much.
Perhaps
my definition of hope has evolved over the years. At first, I was
reluctant to hope not wanting to feel disappointed. More importantly, I
wanted to protect him from it; the disappointment of wanting a cure,
waiting for a cure, only to learn no cure will be found. Now, I have hope. I
am hopeful for better treatments in his lifetime. A cure, I am hopeful
for that too.
I'm not afraid to show him hope. I want him to have it.
Perhaps, just perhaps, it has made me more aware. The unfairness is not lost on me. It's part of his everyday. I know.
Finally.. there is....
My heart. I know it has made my heart stronger, as it has had to mend many breaks because of it.
The day-in-the-life has changed me.
5 comments:
I often wonder who I/she/we would be if diabetes hadn't entered our lives. This was beautiful to read.
So true and beautiful Reyna. Yes, type 1 diabetes has changed us all in some way. I definitely know it has made me a more compassionate person. My eyes are WIDE OPEN to the fact that every single person on this earth is dealing with something. For our family, it is T1D. I choose to focus on the blessings of our journey and there are many. We have technology, tools and resources available to us that didn't even exist 10 years ago. And we have the wonderful diabetic on-line community to love and support us. We are blessed.
When we first started four-ish years ago, BB was the best place to come to find "same." I'm so glad you're back.
Wonderfully said Reyna! Keep up the great work! xo
On point, my friend! <3 you.
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